I think it must be a law of nature or something that when you loan a valued possession it will never come back in the same condition. I think much of the time it's because one is looking for changed things on the return.
Still, I would loan my car to a select certain few if they asked. But no one has ever asked to even drive my car, much less borrow it. I know the day will come when my wife will take it without me but that hasn't happened yet.
^^ Not that she isn't welcome to take it any time because she is and I'm not worried not worried at all not even a little bit honest!