Ideally, you use a standard linear pressure regulator. (Like a stock reg) If you need an aftermarket reg (your fuel pump flows so much that your stock reg can't control pressure at low loads) just get a linear one. (not rising rate)
Rising rate regs are CRAP!!! One of the best reasons to go with an aftermarket computer is so you don't have to run one.
Note that a standard type reg does change fuel pressure, but changes it in proportion to manifold pressure.
Also, Armando's post could give you the impression that the AEM has control of fuel pressure. this is not the case. The pressure regulator is there so the ECU does not have to account for a changing pressure differential across the injector.