OK, OK, OK! You are both wrong! And both right!
Let's take a look at the physics involved here. The reality of the situation is that the car has dead weight that it must rest of 4 tires. The size of the tires has less to do with the effect than the shape and dynamics of the "contact patch" (that part of the tire the car is actually resting on). As the tires heat up, the head dissipation also plays a major role in the effectiveness of your tires. Uniform heat transfer and effective heat dissipation is critical once the car is in motion. So it is not only the size but you pick but the tread design and the compound.
Anyway, as you add fatter tires, you increase the contact patch, but if the weight of the car remains the same or even gets less relative to the "RATIO" of patch area to weight, then the car will handle worse even with fatter tires.
Likewise, if you remove weight and leave the stock tires you also reduce the weight per square inch of contact area and the car will also handle worse.
So, depending on how much surface area you add in tire size, how much weight you add with the body kit and mods or how much weight you want to remove... it all comes down to maintaining that ideal "sweet spot" ratio that the Honda Engineers wanted so desperately.
So, actually, you are both wrong. Or, I guess you are both right. It all depends of how close you came to maintaining that ratio. In many cases if you do the widebody and really add the rubber, you might want to ADD a bunch more weight just to keep the car in that sweet spot.
Regardless of how the car is setup, you still can't get away from the undenyable laws of physics.
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Gordon G. Miller, III
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