I want to plan a surprise trip for my wife and I to Hawaii next year. We have never been and she's always wanted to go. I don't know anything about the place really, but I've heard that there is the nice Hawaii and then there's the tourist/vacation part of Hawaii that one should avoid. Obviously this would be a vacation, but I'd still like to avoid the tourist area. I hate going to places like that. Any advice or input on what to see, do or avoid would be great.