I am a Certified Financial Planner. The advice you are getting is sort of like anwereing the question," what is better, an NSX or pickup truck?" The answer depends on what you want your insurance to do for you.
There are current needs, college, mortgage, income replacement. Then there are long term needs, estate planning etc...
Anyone reading this needs to remember what I am about to say, If your finances are kind of tight, purchase term. Purchase a term insurance that allows you to "convert" in the future, to any permenent plan that they offer, in the same underwriting class. purchase one that stays level for a minimum 20 years, preferrably 30.The reason for this is that people overestimate the amount of time they will be insurable. I was diagnosed as type II diabetic at age 31. I am never going to get a super cheap insurance plan. But I was able to convert to a permenant life insurance plan, without a physical, as if I wasn't diabetic.
When you know you are insurable, people typically don't want life insurance. When people find out they are not insurable, insurance of any type, becomes the best looking thing in the world.
You buy homeowners, car, renters and other types of insurance, hoping you will never use them. The one event that is guaranteed to happen, death, and now people want to purchase the "cheapest" one, failing to understand the gravity of their situation.
I was a real estate appraiser whan my father died. He died without life insurance. It has ruined my mothers life. She raised 5 kids and had no real marketable skills. My dad worked for the railroad, and died at 61. My mother was 49, and not eligible to get his pension because she wasn't 55.

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My dads best friend died from the same kind of cancer a couple of months later, he had life insurance , his wife wasn't destitute like my mother. Unfortunately, my mother wouldn't allow us to give her money, because she knew they could have planned better, but they chose not to.
Don't put your wife in the same position.
Talk to a person that is a Certified Financial Planner. Not a "Financial Advisor," or "Financial Consultant", these are titles for people that don't have the schooling or the knowledge that a CFP/Certified Financial Planner has. We had to pass a 10 hour test, dealing with all sorts of insurance, investment, tax planning, business planning and estate planning.
Please remember this: Only 2% of term insurance ever pays a death claim, permenant life insurance has a payment rate in the 70% range. With permemant insurance you can stucture it so you can quit paying on it, and still have a policy, for the rest of your life. You can also use the funds for supplemental income needs, and over time the "cost" of a permenant plan is way lower, even the "price" of a term policy is less.
Sorry this is so long, but more people need to know the facts.