I think that is an excellent question and I appreciate your asking for dialogue. I can't speak for others, but I'll be pleased to provide my personal insight. First, I think we can all agree the demography has changed drastically. The early owners purchased a NSX for $80,000 to perhaps $100,000. (The first NSX was sold at Gold Coast Acura in Oxnard, California. There were two guys with their check books, and the car went for $120,000 according to the people at Gold Coast.) Now we see threads asking how to finance a $20,000 NSX. I don't mean to imply that's a bad thing. It's just a different thing. I've been a member since 2003, but I owned a NSX when I lived in Europe and didn't know about NSX Prime at that time. So, I've owned a NA1 and now have a NA2.
Steve (steveny) called me today and we spoke for about an hour. We talk to one another three or four times a week. Hal (queenlives) called me yesterday because I donated some bees in his name to a charity (heiferinternational.org). Hal and I have been having lunch together for quite a while now. Same with Ken (Chopsjazz). Ken has over 10,000 posts and has contributed an incredible amount of information and knowledge to this site, but now spends little time here.
I can't tell you how many members of Prime have been to my house. During my illness, my phone rang off the hook with members asking me what I needed or what they could do for me. I've receive countless PM's from Prime members saying they were going to be in San Francisco and asking to get together for a drink or dinner. When I lived in North Carolina and before moving back to San Francisco, D'Ecosse used to call me while commuting in the Bay Area, and we had a great relationship because he was Scottish and my then wife was Scottish as well. He contributed invaluable information regarding sound systems. Because I now live in San Francisco again, my car is parked six floors below ground and I can't work on it in the garage. I've had members come to my house, exchange cars and take my car to their house to install my NSX-S suspension, paint my brake callipers, etc. for me. When I offer payments, they really become insulted. I just give them a bottle of wine or buy them lunch and all is OK.
Is this starting to paint a picture? NSX Prime was much more than a car site. It was an extremely tight community of friends. We really knew one another and liked one another. I think we had serious concerns about things like "street racing." We took our cars to the track.
Steve and I were talking about the birth of their second child this evening. It was not only a part of a community, but a real connection. It was more than a "car community." We knew on another and we cared about one another.
Now go back and read the thread. See any disparaging remarks about me as a person? See anything about me as being "holier than tho?" when I didn't mention any one? See a snide remark about the age of women I date? See when those members became members (2009, 2008 and 2010) Oh, now there is a new one...
See how members like it when someone "stirs the pot" but take exception when I "stir the pot" about grammar? And quite honestly, there weren't grammar lapses. And, I couldn't help but point out how a person that has a master's degree couldn't spell it.
There wasn't hostility in the past. There wasn't the vitriolic posts in the past. In the past, this was FAR beyond a car forum. It was cars, friends, family, concerns, thoughts, etc. and that's what made it special. Look at the "off topic" number of threads versus the others.
Thank you for asking the question, and I hope it answers it from my prospective.
Good post. BUT.............. I talk to just as many members as you do and have had a great time with members from all states when i pass through, I have pictures from all my times with others all over the country, from Ross(Stmpo) to Alum4org in Michigan and Steveny in NY. SJS(steve schiffler), Ddozier(dave) and Matteni(Nick Matteni) had more informative post than FUNKY STEVENY(j/k:smile, but they aren't judging others, they just look and post where they fit in. Its still the same theme, people just seem a little more irritable than years before. Primers here get scolded about everything from drag racing to wheel choices, and for what? Seriously, for what??? Its a 14 year old car. I think there have been more contributors to nsxprime than you named, especially in the last 4 years. I spend most of my internet time on nsxprime, checking threads, looking for pics and supporting our vendors because i still love the nsx and like nsxprime. Spreading my dislikes about bat's post or threads isn't gonna do anything, but hype up somebody else that doesn't like it. So whats the end result of that?????????
When i go to the mall and i see a pair of shoes in a store i don't like, i just don't look at or buy those shoes. The store has all kinds of shoes, but i buy what I like. I don't scold the management about the new or different choice of shoes they are selling, its not my store. But if i like the store i try to support it and the stuff i like, i leave the stuff i don't like to the people that like it. Continuing to post what your version of something should be is selfish and its spreads, to add no value to anything.
Im not pointing YOU out, i do enjoy your post and hope that we can meet one day. To the older members posting the same old poison(THE SITE HAS GONE DOWNHILL!!!!) makes one look old and selfish. People keep saying the site has changed, hasn't everything changed a little? Well the homepage is behind but hey, it ain't my site!:biggrin: But there have been good and bad, try to be positive and remain part of the good.
USE THIS:smile: attitude INSTEAD OF THIS attitude. Prime is STILL about cars, family, concerns and thoughts......really it is.:biggrin: So am I. Peace OG's!:biggrin:
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