Bumping an old thread.... Is this the connector needed?
http://www.ebay.com/itm/Wire-Harnes...ash=item25ad20c7ad:g:fDgAAOSwaB5Xr-Ly&vxp=mtr
No, that is a connector for the actual light bulb - the one I mean is for the reverse light switch which is located on the actual transmission - it's hard to miss if you look under the hood of a civic or integra.