Opinions are like a-holes, and there are a lot of different ones here (opinions, that is.)
I had the same "dilemma" in January when I needed to get a new clutch. I had really disliked the big 2nd gear, and I asked on this forum the same question you were. What I came down to for me was.....am I ever going to want short gears? Am I ever going to want a ring & pinion? Well, if the answer to these questions is yes, then now is the time to do it. If you've got to put the part cost on a credit card and pay it off over time, I'd still say go for it because you are saving $$$ in labor costs over dropping the tranny for each mod.
As for me, I absolutely love the short gears combined with the 4.23 ring & pinion. I went with this setup after Chris at SOS suggested it, and I have never regretted the decision to do so. First of all, for lack of a better term, my NSX seemed a hell of a lot more "angrier" after the work was done. The docile animal I was driving before had turned into a machine that begs me to stomp on the gas pedal. I feel a lot more like I'm driving a sports bike with four wheels than a car sometimes. The acceleration improvement is very apparent, and that huge 2nd gear is a whole heck of a lot more better.
There's not a lot of whine at 80, 90, or even 110 mph out of the motor.......two round trips from Albuquerque to Phoenix confirmed to me that this setup doesn't hurt the highway manners much at all. I can't speak for the 4.55 Comptech r&p, but the NSX-R 4.23 isn't bad at all.
I view the short gears as aligning the shift points to where they SHOULD have been in the first place RPM-wise, and the ring & pinion as the final touch to help with the acceleration. Both of them change the character of the car a lot, and I feel that you should get both of them done at the same time if you're thinking about these mods.
Chuck