Bigger rims would likely slow you down, as there will be more rotating weight, and therefore more parasitic power loss in the system. Lightweight 15/16's would be the ticket for high speed....
I am not so sure about this.
While the OEM 15/16 and 17/17 wheels are relatively light and so are OEM sized tires, the wheels are also much further inward relative to the body of the car.
AFAIK, the rolling resistance of tires goes up to a certain point and then remains at that point.
With bigger tires and larger wheels which are offset in such a way that the outside is in line with the wheelw wells you should have less eddies around those thereby reducing your wind resistance.
Wide body kits and/or parts thereoff increase the frontal surface of the car thereby increasing wind resistance even if the CD-value of the car would be the same.
Any part on the car that would create any significant downforce at high speed should normally reduce your top speed. I'm not sure if this works the same for parts that will increase downforce by just reducing lift.
Looks to me like, for example, the NSX-R undercover would actually help achieving higher speeds because it just reduces lift.
This is only true of course if your top-speed is drag-limited and not power or gearing limited.