Again, just based on my readings, something is a bit odd in here.
At 80F you should NOT be seeing these kind of numbers with a few laps or even a full 25 min session.
When I used to get close to 215-220F for water (happens only on days with ambient temp 90+F and pretty much redline shifts) my oil temp tended to get to 260F. So there is a gap of about 40F (and I too ran about 30/70 mix or thereabouts) with OEM radiator, oil cooler but no ducted hood back then. [I no longer track on days at 90+F, its worst on me than my NSX LOL!]
Your difference though between the two is only about 20F. Maybe this is the norm instead of the 40F that I used to see.
If the overflow cap was tight, and you have bled the radiator to make sure no air pockets/bubbles exist, and you know for sure the fan did kick, then perhaps you are right that you may have a leaking gasket. Unless you know that the gasket is the culprit, I would first start with the simple tests/diagnostics of the cap (perhaps you need to replace it?), level in overflow, bleed the radiator again ......