Regarding the coolant temperature sensor, I put it into the main outlet hose to measure the temperature of the coolant coming out of the engine. It would be interesting to measure the temperature of the coolant going into the engine as well to see the temperature drop across the radiator, but I thought the temperature coming out of the engine would be a better indication of how hot the engine was.
Regarding the oil temperature, I tapped threads into the oil pump sealing bolt (part number 15233-PC6-000) and mounted a sensor in there.
I've never heard of anyone needing to open that bolt, so the temperature sensor is never in the way. The bolt is meant to be opened with an allen key, so you can drill that out and tap threads for the temperature sensor in there. In order to mount the bolt without an allen key, you can cut the perimeter to turn it into a regular hex bolt. With a thin-walled hex nut, it mounts right up. If you do that, just make sure 1) you cut as little of the perimeter away as possible to make sure you don't get a leak, and 2) the temperature sensor you screw in doesn't extend so far past the threads that it hits the oil pump gears.
I've had mine that way for years and it's never leaked a drop of oil, the oil pressure exactly the same as it's always been, and I don't need to remove the sensor when I change the oil.