and as you see from my post above...if I pay the bills I make the rules and someone better be ready when I need them. Same goes for people on welfare. They need to know WE pay for their bills and they better be ready to accept it. If they aren't willing to work then they can and will be looked down on AND can have nothing say about it. You want pride MFer, GET A DAMN JOB!! Oh but they have pride living off the system but walking around with their nose in the air like their shit doesn't stink. I am so tired of it.
Like one of the prime members I talked to by phone last night who had never seen these type of people before. He was cleaning out a property in California. He says the people are just a bit above animals. He saw it with his own eyes and picked up someone elses mess with his own hands. All you guys who don't get it, don't get it because you are living in a bubble and have never seen outside the bubble. There is a huge class of people in this country that are a drain on the rest of us.
Back on topic and what I would say to the OP if I were talking to him face to face.
How long have you been seeing this girl? If the answer is a year or less.... Is she f--ing you to help her parents bills get paid? If the answer is is one to 30 years, pay them but make sure they do in return for you OR take some of their belongings until you are paid back. If they won't let you take their tv to your house than you are being played because they are not planning on keeping you around as long as they would like to keep their TV.