Yeah, but I bet that all these girls post on the internet talking about how they're real too...so how is an honest guy these days supposed to know the difference?
Sure, guys can be mean. But, as long as women keep marking for player BS, we'll keep pulling it. I mean, some of the nonsense that I've done that's been gone gaga over, just demeaning crap and a lot of women eat it up. And, w/ some it's even as if they don't respect you the next day if you don't play them out. In most cases, you can't BE nice.
And, there's the rub. W/ the majority of girls, esp pretty ones, you have to be so nasty, disinterested, and almost cruel to them that, for me personally, I cannot subsequently have any respect for somebody who would even let me treat them that way, much less expect or want it. Seriously, stretches of years go by in between finding a pretty girl who will be nice in return if you open with a nice move. Freakin moss grows.