While I am the type of person who enjoys a healthy debate, It’s difficult to determine tone in writing. Being that your in Vegas, I don’t want this to degrade into anything more than a honest discussion. Hopefully you view this as an insider/outsider discussion, but some of the word choice makes me wonder.
That's a valid point. However, the cost is not tied to service. The cost is tied to laws of economics and supply and demand. The venues can charge and expect the dollar amounts that they charge because people are willing to pay it. The markups and tips have no relation to actual service; they are related to demand, no different than the dealership asking me for a $3,000 premium over MSRP on a new Toyota Prius. I’m not getting better service or a better car for that extra $3K. They charge that much because they can get that much. And if you were in that position, you’d do the same thing. If you were trying to sell your car and someone asked $3K more for it, would you tell them you don’t want it? If the demand wasn’t there, then these clubs could charge such exorbitant fees. But the fees are there because the demand is there and if you’ve ever been to one of these clubs they are packed asses to elbows with 100 yard lines to get in. And tip lines are there because if you enjoyed your stay there and wish to return, then you need to know that it is a good idea to take care of the people in that industry and that tipping has its privileges (if that is what you want).
I never argued the concept of supply and demand. I never argued the demand isn’t there either. Obviously Vegas is built on over the top opulence, and those with the means can flex their muscle in an almost unequally visible manner. I also get the need for companies to impress clients, the need to tip the right people, or being noticed by the right people giving a large tip. We can agree on the basics of consumerism in Vegas all day, but it was never my point. Going back to my original post, I said I hope this individual is a generous with his money for charitable causes as he is with personal indulgence. Are they? I don’t know, but I hope so.
Bill Gates, the richest man in the world between 94-2009, Warren Buffet, and Mark Zuckerberg have all committed to giving away half of their wealth over time. (The Giving Pledge). This pledge is target towards philanthropy. Maybe I should have said philanthropy instead of charity, as it has broader implications, but the founding principle of both remains to improve the quality of life to those less fortunate, which was essentially my point.
If Bill Gates hosted a party at Tryst, and he bought out the entire bar, I wouldn’t bat an eye for two reasons. A. as you said, their can be good reasons for any level of spending, and B. He has proven himself as seeing the bigger picture, in that life exists beyond all of our own little worlds, and we each have a moral duty to help others in a reasonable manner. Even if this hypothetical situation was a one night bender with no goal, meaning, or purpose, we all have the right to blow off steam, so there is no harm, and Vegas would benefit, so yay. Again my point is the recognition of balance.
Why stop there? Why not replace the 2000 Dom with off the shelf Korbel? Hell, why not replace it with Popov vodka and orange juice? Why even indulge in alcohol in the first place since it is completely hedonistic anyway? Who draws that line? Who is the moral police to say what is an “acceptable” amount to spend on alcohol? Does it mean that since you can’t comfortably afford this level of lifestyle then it repulses you? What about the person who can’t afford your level of lifestyle, should they be repulsed by the hedonistic way you live?
Why stop there? Why even indulge in Alcohol in the first place? Simple, because my point was never to remove/reduce/alter the activity to the point of fallacy. I wanted to present an alternate proposition that didn’t change the type or amount of consumable beverage (given the bottles are of equal size???) The point is the only reason to buy such expensive bottles, which I termed self indulgence, though it might better be describe as Narcissism (if this was an individual) and Ostentatiousness, is to show off ones wealth.
I’m not the moral police, and I never said there is anything wrong with drinking. I also never attempted to define an “Acceptable” amount to spend on alcohol, or for anything for that matter. I think as adults most people set what they see as reasonable values for what they themselves are willing to spend on x,y, and z. Society as a whole, through social construct and norms, also identifies what an overall reasonable spending level is for x, y, and z. As our personal habits will inevitably be judged against the norms of society, it becomes pretty easy to pick out the outliers. Are outliers good or bad? To me, it depends on their other values.
It’s not like I’m the first person to question such spending, be it Vegas or the Fiesta Bowl. A lot of people have lost their jobs due to such indiscretions, and just because Vegas has built their economy on the “what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas” mantra, that’s really not the case. People will ask questions, and as the money spent has to come from somewhere. Hopefully, if some reporter decides to track down the story, it’ll be traced back to an individual, like LeBron, who can do as he pleases. Unfortunately, as we all know and have read in the news, that’s not always the case…
That's really not the point. The point is any amount of money spent on something not for bare necessities is an indulgence. Regardless if it is a $5 bottle of wine or $5,000. So who is to say what is an “acceptable” amount to spend on something? Everything needs to be based on a scale relative to your comfort level? Take the clothes you wear and the car you drive. Did you spend more than the absolute bare minimum needed? Could you get by on a less expensive car or less clothes? I can guarantee you that you did. Well why? Why didn’t you spend $5,000 less on a car and give that to charity? What if some was appalled that you even own a car, when there are people starving to death or don’t even have clean water? What about all the owners of NSX’s on this forum? That’s indulgent too. A two seat sports car for the sake of our own entertainment. We could have all bought Civic’s and donated the rest to charity. Sure you can disagree with the actions of others, but some opinions are more myopic than others. For the record, I live in Vegas and see this behavior all the time. While I hardly condone it, I can at least understand that if someone earned their money, then they have the freedom to do with it as they please. And as a disapproving observer, I can either complain about it, or make my own money myself and then do with it as I please (whether it be to indulge with it, or donate it charity). The point is, rather than complain about what people do with their own hard earned money, why not focus on just making your own money and doing with it you think is the best use of it.
I agree that self indulgence wasn’t the best descriptor for this behavior, so I agree anything not absolutely necessary can be viewed as indulgence. I think were in agreement it’s not really anyone else’s job to define what is and isn’t acceptable for you, and I agree that many people in 3<sup>rd</sup> world countries, and even many domestically, are likely disturbed by the way upper, and middle class American’s spend their money. With that said Society has it’s line, I have mine, and I think mine is fairly typical (for America). I will express myself if I see something that’s so far outside the box I deem it ridiculous. Will you care/agree/disagree? Only you can answer that.
While I concede indulgence was poor word choice on my behalf, I never presented an argument that equal fun could be had in an alcohol free party, and that everyone should live life by the barest of means and donate their excess. I simply stated with little effort, the bill could be reduced 100k with almost no appreciable difference in substance. How many people even know what 95 Dom and Veuve taste like?
ALL of that money comes back to us. We have no state income taxes here in Vegas. Do you know why? A large part of it is because the casinos pay ridiculous taxes to the state which is used to pay for roads, schools and government services. When the casinos make money, everybody here benefits. Now that the casinos aren’t making money guess what happens? Well I can tell you first hand that we had massive teacher layoff and huge school budget cutbacks. Why? Because people stopped spending in Vegas, revenue was down, and state tax income was down. So whether it be the server who can pay for their mortgage, the casino that can pay their taxes or the Steve Wynn who can make enough money to open a casino that employs hundreds of people, that money is the life blood of our city. We don’t produce cars, we don’t make medicines, and Apple isn’t headquartered here. We survive on people spending money on a hedonistic lifestyle (as much as you disapprove of it).
You keep putting words in my mouth. Please quote me on where I said I disapprove of anyone’s hedonistic lifestyle, or said people shouldn’t be allowed this type of lifestyle. I earlier used the term disgusted, which you termed as repulsed. While similar, they are not synonyms of one another as disgusted does not include the discourteousness/rudeness/coldness that is traditionally associated with repulsed. It’s a subtle difference, but as I said, one can respectfully disagree with another’s decision.
Do you think people are just cutting back spending in Las Vegas? All state income is taking the hit through decreased sales (sales tax) and decreased jobs (income tax). Your city is not unique in that sense. I work for a school district that has laid-off 30 million dollars in paid staff in the last 2 years. The people who have no money to travel to Vegas, are also people who have no money at home. While I feel empathy for those who are struggling, both my wife’s brother and father were unemployed for two years, this is the world we live in. I would think living in Vegas, you would understand the places with the highest highs often have the lowest lows. No one placed an embargo on Nevada and big business, but being the state known for gluttony and excess probably has negative consequences when trying to reel in big business.
And while you can discuss the merits of HOW that money is distributed, unless you want to establish a completely communistic and socialistic government, then you’ll just have to accept that when money flows in a city it will always be distributed disproportionately. Would it be nice for money to be disturbed equally along the Strip? Hell would it be nice if people patronized business off of the Strip? Yes and yes. But that’s not realistic. People don’t come here to eat at the local Applebees. People come here for the Strip and the Strip experience. They want the hot clubs. They want the indulgent, hedonistic lifestyle. They want a place where they can blow wads of cash and be a baller for the night. It’s Vegas for christ’s sake. What do you think the line “what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas” comes from? Why do you think the movie Hangover was shot in Vegas? In order to get people to drop a small mortgage on a single night, you NEED the Steve Wynn’s of the world and the greedy corporations to set up environments where people are compelled to do it. Does it mean hedonistic opulence and uneven distribution of profits? Yes. But nobody is going to drop $200K watching an Elvis impersonator or eating at a $9.99 buffet.
How many rooms in Vegas are there for the ultra rich? How many are there for average Mr. And Mrs. America? Vegas needs the average person to return. Mr. 200k is still hanging out in Vegas, just like he was before the economy turned; the difference is the thousands of entry level rooms that remain empty across the strip. The perfectly reasonable or minimally extravagant spending that the majority of Vegas tourists spend is what keeps your economy turning, not 95 Dom Perignon. The average joe will spend much more evenly across the board then the uber rich in town for a one nighter. 200k is 200k, but Vegas would benefit more from 200 people spending 1k throughout the strip, then 1 party doing it in 1 club.
This is all off topic though as I don’t disapprove of Vegas, and I never did. I just hope that those who spend extravagantly, also spend a day with Habitat for Humanity, donate their hair for Locks of Love, give a charitable donation to their non-profit of choice, or buy a breakfast for elderly lady eating alone at Denny’s on Sunday morning because we can. The world is what we make of it, and unfortunately it’s kind of shibby right now because a lot of people have done some really crummy things in the last decade.
In any event, I’ll be bringing a portion of my disposable income with me when I do Vegas this summer, and I’ll do my part to support your economy in the hedonistic way I apparently disapprove of. If you want I can bring a list of my good deeds and we can review it while we crack a bottle of Mumm (or Korbel if that’s your preference), no Dom though, I’ll be on a budget. :biggrin: