baynsac
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Thats why you should know that all good things can end one day just like anything/everything else in life. I was in Iraq for almost a year and she waited for me and wrote letters everyday. But my wife comes from a strict family(she didn't go out much) just work and school. When we were going out(just talking she could never go anywhere). When we got married I showed her all the best clubs/bars/restaurants/vacations places/etc, all the things she always wanted to see and do and in the end she realized how over rated everything is.
We both know what matters is family. She (more than I ) loves taking care of the home and our family. She doesn't still have the dream that one day she will be somewhere better, she loves where she is now. I also love where I am now but I am more like your friends ex-wife never satisfied (naturally) and always looking for things I don't need.
Your friends wife was going to leave him regardless. She probably was cheating for a while on him as well.
People don't change, if they are the type to do those sorts of things before you met her, she will sooner or later do it again. You might never know about it, but you know your wife better than anyone and you should know what she/her character is capable of. You should know how she really is and if she always wanting more than sooner or later you won't be enough.
Also, If they weren't so rich she would had her fun and came home 6 weeks later like nothing happened. But she knew she had an OPTION to leave as they were rich. Finding a good marriage patner is like finding a really good friend. Not many out there, the ones that are out there been screwed over by so many others they don't even know how to do it the right way with you without feeling like they are screwing over thierselves again. I think lot of luck is involved finding the right person, as you have to be in the right place and right time to meet the other person and who is also in the same place in life/and looking for the same things as you are.
Nothing in life is permenant, enjoy it all while you can....
We both know what matters is family. She (more than I ) loves taking care of the home and our family. She doesn't still have the dream that one day she will be somewhere better, she loves where she is now. I also love where I am now but I am more like your friends ex-wife never satisfied (naturally) and always looking for things I don't need.
Your friends wife was going to leave him regardless. She probably was cheating for a while on him as well.
People don't change, if they are the type to do those sorts of things before you met her, she will sooner or later do it again. You might never know about it, but you know your wife better than anyone and you should know what she/her character is capable of. You should know how she really is and if she always wanting more than sooner or later you won't be enough.
Also, If they weren't so rich she would had her fun and came home 6 weeks later like nothing happened. But she knew she had an OPTION to leave as they were rich. Finding a good marriage patner is like finding a really good friend. Not many out there, the ones that are out there been screwed over by so many others they don't even know how to do it the right way with you without feeling like they are screwing over thierselves again. I think lot of luck is involved finding the right person, as you have to be in the right place and right time to meet the other person and who is also in the same place in life/and looking for the same things as you are.
Nothing in life is permenant, enjoy it all while you can....
hmm i have a friend, happily married for 18 yrs. Very wealthy.. he worked his ass off, she raised the kids, high school sweethearts.
They owned a place in florida where they'd go for the summers. Last summer he couldn't make it due to business (the same business he has killed himself in for the past 15 years to make them millionaires).
She met a bird handler while waiting the 6 weeks it was taking him to tie up loose ends. She fell for the guy, dumped her husband. She got about $4,000,000 plus 6 years of alimony at $150k/yr for his efforts at creating a business from nothing. Plus she still gets to bang the guy while the kids live with her in their old house.
Cliffs:
Get married.
Work hard.
wife bangs other guy and takes half.
marriage is a waste. All these happily married guys.. i'm sure they are just as happy as my friend was before his spouse (without meaning to) fell for another guy.