I hope this is not a repost. President Obama has been in the office for almost 3/4 of a year so at this point i think we should all have an opinion about what he does/says.
+1Him or his policies? I'd enjoy dinner with the guy. I separate the man and his politics to a certain extent, even as a President.
As a person who grew up South Carolina and had a family member lynched (grandfather - looked and smiled at a white woman), I totally agree with Pres Carter. He didn't say all the people who disagree and dislike Pres Obama is racist but when you attack the man without substance well...it is what it is.
Many people here dislike Obama and his policies, but they make their point intelligently and they do discuss the issues. But out in right wing fringe land the plan has always been to attack and delegitimatize the man ..... he's not a citizen, he's just like Hitler, he's socialist even though he's continuing many of and spending money carrying out Bush' policies (TARP, Iraq, Afghanistan, etc)
White people don't like the racist charge they think its evil or something --- it not its a point of view. My mother is white and she doesn't like it when I make the charge against her. I guess since she had mixed children she thought that she doesn't qualify for the charge.
But I remember being told over and over when I was younger and bringing good grades she would say without any hesitation ......"oh that's because all of the white blood in you" and her favorite quote as I grew up .... "If you're white you're alright, if you brown hang around, and if you're black get back."
None of this has anything to do with hate ...... just a feeling and projection of superiority. This affected me growing up as I believed in this BS for a long time.
To this day she will still come out and say that she doesn't like dealing with black people and when I visit her I'll just look at my brother and sister when she says that. They know to keep their mouth closed --- but then they look almost completely white. I won't keep my mouth closed and we get into battles.......after all I do look mixed and I do take exception.
I don't dislike my mom for this, I love her, I speak out because I want her to change......because aside from that (and being bossy) she's about perfect....plus she 75 years old .......she grew up in this stuff. People think this crap happened hundreds of years ago.
This altitude of hers is very common in the south....and I know how she hides it in public and therefore I can pick it up in whites (who still feel that way) real easy. I can see the contempt in some white people's eye when a black person is in charge (or with a white woman) ...esp if they are dark skin...I even look for it so I can be prepared or make a mental of that person. I can also see that much of what I grew up with is changing and that contempt is not in many younger white people.
Here is another example of the problem with a black person I know. This guy has very dark skin and I have not seen him in around 16 years and the first thing out of his mouth .......Hey Chris you still got that "good hair".
When white people have the good hair and black people have the bad hair our whole society's culture is based on racism and until we talk about it fully it will never change. We will have some type of race war (and not just White vs Black) ...... as soon as times get tough enough (or someone is killed).....and who do you think is going to lose that really?
The push back you see from minorities esp blacks is fear....don't need slaves no more....and the hardcore white racist know that.
One more story......my father was black and native american and very very good looking ....this was the only way my grandmother would accepted him....plus my mom was not her favorite. My mother told me that she loved beautiful people. My aunt M (her favorite) on the other hand married a dark skinned black guy and when she did my grandmother cried for a week (what's funny is my uncle J is the whitest black man I know). This lady when I was a child with the effects of a stoke that prevented her from using her left arm would make me supper after school and I can still hear her shuffling and struggling to do it (when I close my eyes) ...even when I didn't want her to. She was racist, and she loved me, and she was a good person too.
That is some pretty heavy stuff. With that being said it really appears you are carrying around a chip on your shoulder. Just let it go. You aren't going to get any special treatment from anyone and just because some white guy did some messed up crap 10 years, 10 months, 10 days, 10 seconds ago... doesn't mean every white guy is out to get ya or is a racist.
As a person who grew up South Carolina and had a family member lynched (grandfather - looked and smiled at a white woman), I totally agree with Pres Carter. He didn't say all the people who disagree and dislike Pres Obama is racist but when you attack the man without substance well...it is what it is.
I didn't necessarily take it as he had a chip on his shoulder as much as he was sharing life experience and his point of view. I actually thought it was interesting seeing life from someone else's point of view. It sucks that in this day and age that anyone has to feel the way he does.
Everyone should have to listen to the Black Eyed Peas song - One Tribe. If you haven't heard the song it's a pretty good one. As the song goes, "we are all one people" and the jist of the song is we (globally) need to just accept one another and live in peace and quit all the hating.
But that is just my point, everyone has it hard. Some people think their the only ones who have it hard. You and I talk about this all the time... how no matter what there will always be another obstacle to get over and that is what keeps us going. Others just don't want the obstacle to be there and if the obstacle is there they immediately become angry, disappointed, accusatory and think EVERYONE else put the obstacle there JUST to piss off this one person.
dang, i'm gonna need more coffee.
indeed.Just put another pot on. Feel free to grab a cup. Life is difficult enough without making up problems to deal with.
awesome. another thread on politics and racism. Anyone wanna discuss the iraq war as well???
Oh boy.. here we go again.