I've had AP-X @7.5psi for 2 years. My FIC went bad and it was a bitch to diagnose. AEM replaced it for free even though it was out of warranty. The replaced the circuit board due to a bad internal MAP sensor......or such.
Aside from that, my car runs, starts and drives nearly exactly like stock. It starts without a hiccup cold or hot. My AFR's are stable.
It is all about tuning. EMS are quite hard to tune and take, from what I understand, a lot more knowledge and time. They cost 3x more.
On the other hand I have not heard of an EMS going kaput and it allows for vastly superior control.
Make sure you are prepared to budget for an aftermarket clutch, check your spool valves for any weeping and definitely go with a Walbro 255 or similar.
The stock fuel pump will get weaker with age and can mess your AFR's up at WOT.