I am lumping you two together into a single response- my last in this thread. If you wish for further clarification feel free to PM...
Spinner said:
Ok this is fucked up. If it was a newbie posting this, all hell would come down on him. In other words it will turn into a witch hunt regardless of who is right or wrong. No one will defend the newbie...but since OP has a long history at prime, some feel the need to defend him.
I don't care if the OP's post count was 1, or 20,000- board seniority has nothing to do with my argument.
OneRedNSX said:
just out of cureosity since you seem to be on some sort of self-appointed crusade...
did you ever think that nobody that posted the 'negative connotations' in their responses cared if you liked it or not? if negative replys in a post dedicated to such a stupid act that it SHOULD be outwardly condemned bother you maybe you should have just reported the THREAD and the FIRST POST as something you had a problem with... but you didn't which makes me wonder if you just wanted to start a different argument...
I don't know about you, but I would prefer the 'community' that was intellingent enough to NOT show ANY side of complaciency or sympathy to such an action. Nothing really personal against the thread-starter but it was really f*n stupid and if 1 person says it or 650 people say it, I am much happier to see people condeming this type of behavior instead of trying to be accepting or p.c. about it.
funny how you talk about 'class'... you read the first post right?
'nuff said
Is it? Or do we need another 649 people say the same thing before it is a valid message? By your own argument we do.
Don't you think you made your argument eloquently enough? Do you really need to collect a mob of supporters for your cause?
In this case I agree- it was wrong to have even one drink and drive 110mph, any reasonable person would feel that way.
I don't agree with the mob mentality that develops while others continuously pile on the criticism.
I don't see anyone
defending what the OP did. I certainly wasn't. I was just making a comment on the fact that too many people had jumped on the band wagon to criticize since that point had clearly been made.
I have been on these boards for quite some time, and my observation of this thread is that too many people out there want be a part of making this guy feel bad. They probably do this so they can feel really good about projecting the image of a "perfect person"- thats just ego, plain and simple.
How many people need to tell this guy that what he did was stupid before it will be enough? After a point it isn't helpful anymore, it is just rubbing someones nose in their mistake.
That is a crummy thing to do, and it is done by people who are so small that the only way they can feel good is to point out the shortcomings of others.
Watch the boards for the next couple of weeks and see if I don't make the same point in as many threads as I see this occuring in regardless of whether I agree that what the OP did was right or wrong.
This type of dog-pile criticism needs to stop. It is bad form, and bad behavior. Overall it makes for lousy reading, and degrades the quality of the site. This isn't a "crusade", but if anyone took any of this personally, then I am a success. Maybe they will modify their behavior, or at least know what they are doing when they are doing it.
As said above- this is my LAST response in this thread- If anyone wishes to discuss further, feel free to PM, or even start a new thread if you feel your comment is worth the keystrokes, and bandwidth.
Philip