If you read the Nengun web site information the Bee*R rev limiter is for engine protection. Its not a launch control system and I expect it will have the same bang - bang engine speed control problems if you try to use it as a launch control.
The Bee Racing Rev Limiter cuts ignition when the rev limit has been hit, ensuring protection of the engine in all conditions.
If you are going to hack the existing software limiter on the ECU I presume that you would be keeping a laptop connected if you wanted to adjust the rev limiter setting.
You have a rev limiter feature already with the existing ECU which I think does a mix of hard and soft cuts - I would have to go back a read the service manual to confirm that. But, you definitely already have a built in rev limiter. What it seems like you are looking for is launch control which is much more complicated. Launch control in the implementations I have seen requires a drive by wire throttle and integration with traction control. The DBW acts like cruise control except that it is controlling engine speed rather than vehicle speed and is tied in with the traction control to limit wheel slip backed up by a rev limiter for when you miss that 2nd - 3rd shift.
If you try an external rev limiter as a launch control device, cutting the power supply to the coils will certainly stop the ignition from operating until the engine drops out of the rev limit threshold. If you check the ignition section of the electrical portion of the service manual you will find the wiring diagram for the ignition coil supply. The fuse for the coil supply is clearly labeled and with the harness diagram in the service manual you should easily be able to find the route for the power supply to the coils. My opinion is that I don't think that is going to be an effective launch control system and is probably a bad strategy. However, that is only my opinion and its your car so you get to try what you want to try.