So I have this neighbor who is a part time resident next door to me - while he's gone I get e-mails that he's shipped stuff via UPS-FedEX-etc to me for him and would I mind putting them in his garage for when he arrives next time...this has been going on for two years probably 20 times a year. When he and his family get here to visit he's over to borrow my ladder, wrenches etc. etc. mostly the same stuff every time. I'm tired of this ....not a bad person just a pain in the ass and not normally the type I'd have to be my good friend. He always prefaces his request(& e-mails) with some other reason for stopping by and then goes "oh by the way could I borrow your......."
My wife thinks I should just be Mr. Nice Guy and just do it and let it go...I on the other hand am ready to tell him it's time to stop and and fend for himself. On top of that he bring us useless, inexpensive gifts which I view like what the settlers gave the indians way back when....
Am I off base here?
Thanks!
My wife thinks I should just be Mr. Nice Guy and just do it and let it go...I on the other hand am ready to tell him it's time to stop and and fend for himself. On top of that he bring us useless, inexpensive gifts which I view like what the settlers gave the indians way back when....
Am I off base here?
Thanks!