What benefits are you referring to again? Because I don't use public transportation, public education, public grants, collect on medicaid, un-employment, welfare, food stamps, or social security, utilize subsidized parks and sports stadiums, get to fish off Coast Guard cutters, visit Mars, libraries, the pool at the community center, attend bingo night at the firehall, etc etc...
Like many white collar professionals- I figured it out myself and pay my own ride and have nothing to apologize for. I pay more than my fair share via income/property/fuel/sales taxes, licenses and fees - in total about 50-55% of total income is the current national average.... so the rest of the lazy people in our country- many of whom aren't even legal citizens... won't have to and can get a free ride. That's my charitable donation.
The un-patriotic reality? When it comes to getting screwed by corrupt government.. I am pretty sure you can find that same benefit on most corners of planet earth [so I can only speculate that perhaps it was the benefits you were referring to.]
Politics is the science of wealth re-distribution. Contrary to the patriotic crap many were taught at the ballpark in high school- America is far from a shining beacon of well run government for the people. It's a bloated albatross.
What was good has been sold-out wholesale... leaving us with a cesspool of liberal special interests and greed. If it were my call the statue of liberty should be knocked down and replaced with a couple of guys worshiping the almighty god.... DOW.