So it makes me wonder if my mechanic put in the bushings on the sway bars... I can't see it in the pics I took... hmmmm what do u think?
Not sure what you're talking about. Bushings? The front links, albiet decapitated, look properly bolted onto the sways.
You should print the install diagram of the rear links and ask your mechanic if he observed the proper mounting procedure or just air-rammed the bolts on.
Also, I moved the links to the stiffest setting to get the most out of my sway bars. I have it on the same setting in the rear.
The closer in you mount the links to the sways, the stiffer you make the sways and the more you affect under/oversteer on the car. That's not necessarily "getting the most" out of the bars. Did you experiment with different settings before settling on one? On the street you're not going to notice much anyway. Do you track your car?